The reply in my head
From her:
I don’t know what type of person you seem to think that I am. However, I’m not the type of person to mail any kind of ranting, raving, bitching letter to someone. What has happened between you and your family is between you and your family not me. Therefore I have nothing to say about it. My opinions of others stay with me and not voiced because I generally do not like to create more family issues. I’m simply getting our mailing list together for the holiday’s and such. If you do not care to receive any mail from us simply state so.
Best regards, M
What I’d love to send back, but wont:
I think you’re a low life cunt who loves to stick her fat ass in the middle of any drama. I think you created the fucking drama so you could come to the rescue of your “baby” and protect him from the mean bitches trying to bring him down. I think you create ways to keep him from his CHILD so that he will be more attached to YOUR CHILDREN. I will be surprised if this marriage last more than 5yrs. I find it interesting that you brag about what a great marriage you have and how you and Will NEVER fight or argue, but you also promote yourself as a raging bi-sexual and brag that Will let’s you fuck any girl you want. Yeah, that’s the basis for a strong marriage. And if you want to say any shit about MY marriage,again, come back when you’ve been married 12yrs, Bitch!
Customer Serviced!
A week or so ago I ordered $55 worth a stuff from Kohl’s. A lot of clearance stuff. Some shirts for my husband for Christmas. I updated my address info from moving and placed the order. As soon as I hot submit, it popped up that it would be sent to my address in NC. Well, shit! That’s not right. Something didn’t go through when I updated. So I IMMEDIATELY emailed customer service. They emailed back saying they had sent the updated info to fulfillment but in might be too late to get it changed, not to worry the order would be forwarded to me.
Then I got the tracking info. I watched it because I knew it would be delayed (and this same thing happen with my first coffee order after I moved and it took about 5 days to get it sent back to me). Well, on Nov 18th it was delivered to the address in NC.
I emailed Kohl’s again to say that it was delivered, not forwarded. This is what they sent me this morning:
Thank you for taking the time to contact Kohl’s Customer Support.
Upon researching your order, I have found that the order was shipped to the ship-to address originally entered, when your order was placed, as it was too late to update your shipping address. Unfortunately, because UPS considers the package delivered to the correct address, they will not retrieve the package. At this time, there is not anything else we could do on our end. I do apologize for any inconvenience this matter may have caused.
We appreciate the time you took to contact us and look forward to serving you again.
Sincerely,
Toni O.
Customer Support Representative
NOTHING they can do!!! Nothing??? Oh, except keep my money. So I’m apparently supposed to be ok with being out the money and the order. Fuckers. I replied back that they needed to figure out a way to get my order to me, or refund my money and that I would NEVER do business with Kohl’s again.
About that coffee order. I have a reoccurring order from Green Mountain Coffee. Same thing happen right after we moved. My order was shipped but the updated address info hadn’t gone through on their end. I emailed and they did a crazy thing and actually CALLED UPS and had them redirect the shipment.
Crazy what people who actually give a shit about thier customers can do. I know one place I wont be spending money at again.
Dusting off the cobwebs
So, I haven’t been here in a while, I know. I’m feeling a bit invisible lately. And of course it’s getting colder and darker and along with that comes S.A.D. so, you know….
Anyway, I just need to talk some stuff out….
So, my dad died in July 07. After that I had a falling out with my brother. He said some nasty things on MySpace about our mother and I defended her. She had lost her husband of 32 yrs she didn’t need his juvenile bullshit. So there was this big childish thing on MySpace where he basically called me a lazy cunt who couldn’t hold down a job, whatever, and I told him he was dead to me and to never contact me again. Of course since this played out on a public forum, all his friends, including his girlfriend got to chime in and agree that I was a bitch who didn’t deserve him. Yeah, whatever.
So, that’s been that. I wrote him out of my life and hadn’t even given him a second though until tonight.
I got a message through FaceBook from his girlfriend, umm, wife? I guess they got married? Anyway, I didn’t even have a Facebook when all this went down so she had to have looked for me. Not that I’m that hard to find, but still, and effort had to be made. We have no friends in common. Anyway, the message was “I want to send you something in the mail, is there an address where I can send you a letter?”
Hmmm
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How to respond to that?
I ended up replying to her that I was sorry if I sounded defensive but if she wanted to send me a rant about what a bitch I was, she could save it. I’m good. Then I congratulated her on marring my brother.
The thing is, I’m not beyond mending fences, but I dont think things will ever be ok between my brother and I. Especially if she’s the one communicating between us. Bottom line is, I dont trust her. And him, well, he said some pretty hurtful things, and not just about me, but about my whole family, including my kids…his neice and nephews. That’s just not something a Christmas Card will fix, you know.
